--- title: Healing the Hurt of Infidelity description: You just found out that your spouse had an affair and you are beyond angry and hurt. Should you divorce right away? What options do you have? This episode will help you to address if it's really cheating and if your marriage is really over to help you decide what is right for you to do. image: https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/hubfs/Judy%20Rader.jpg --- [![Main_Line_Family_Law_Center](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/hs-fs/file-611773636-png/Final_images/logo.png?t=1416934537453&width=282&name=logo.png "Main_Line_Family_Law_Center")](https://150220.hs-sites.com/home-page) [CLIENT HELP CENTER](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/intro-to-help-center)   |    (610) 410-5444 # [Healing the Hurt of Infidelity](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/healthy-divorce-blog/healing-the-hurt-of-infidelity) By [Judy Rader](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/healthy-divorce-blog/author/judy-rader) You just found out that your spouse had an affair and you are beyond angry and hurt. Should you divorce right away? What options do you really have? This episode will help you to address if it's really cheating and if your marriage is really over to help you decide what is right for you to do if your partner has been unfaithful. Key Points: - What infidelity is and why it affects so many marriages - What having an affair really means for the future of your relationship or future relationships - How to regain your sense of well-being and peace after discovering infidelity in your marriage Listen to this episode: ## ABOUT OUR GUEST #### **JUDY RADER, MA, LMFT** ![Judy Rader](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Judy%20Rader.png?width=166&name=Judy%20Rader.png)About Judy: Judy Rader is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 15 years experience working with families. She specializes in helping individuals and couples work through issues like infidelity through communication, conflict resolution, and relationship enhancement. She also has expertise in parenting issues from young children through adolescence. Judy received her Masters Degree from The George Washington University and her post-graduate clinical certification from Council for Relationships. In addition to speaking and writing, she maintains a private practice in Bala Cynwyd, PA. Contact Judy at therapy@judyrader.com ### ABOUT OUR HOST  #### ADINA LAVER ![Adina_Laver](https://www.mainlinedivorcemediator.com/hs-fs/hubfs/Adina_Laver.png?width=187&name=Adina_Laver.png)In partnership with Main Line Family Law Center, Adina Laver  works with clients who are "on the fence", in the process of separating or getting a divorce, or are in any other way undergoing a significant change or transformation in their lives and who want to engage in this experience consciously and with integrity. Adina is also founder of Courage to Be Curious and formerly Divorce Essentials, a specialized divorce coaching and support services for those committed to a healthy path for reclaiming their lives. 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